Super-Trafalgar
Male, 60. Does your cunt get wet at the idea of being humiliated? Then you've come to the right place. Come in, sit down, let me take a good long look at you and then I'll start digging into your darkest, deepest desires. That may require your panties to be removed at some point. Disclaimer: despite getting off on such nasty things as female degradation, rapeplay and raceplay, I believe in consent and equal rights for all in the real world.
The Humiliation Self-Profiling Kit for submissive women (Version 2)
This is version 2 of the humiliation kit for submissive women (Version 1 is here).
The original version was published on Tumblr - of course - and served two purposes. The first was because I realised that there were a lot of you women who got aroused by the idea of being humiliated but were too *embarrassed* to admit what particular sort of humiliations made you wet with desire. The second was because many of you would communicate with me via anon messages (because, of course, you preferred to stay anonymous) and therefore had to contend with the ridiculous limit on message length.
The profile kit worked nicely to solve both problems: by providing a numbered list of possible humiliations, you simply had to indicate your preferences by giving me a list of numbers. Far less embarrassing, and, pleasingly, it avoided the stupid message limit. But now that we're all here on BDSMlr, the second of those reasons is no more - there are no message limits.
However the first reason is still valid, I feel: you are still somewhat embarrassed by what makes you wet. But humiliation is very personal, is it not? While there are myriad ways to humiliate and degrade you, only some of these ways will make you aroused; others will repel and disgust you. So if you want to have your Owner / play-partner do the things to you that you so desperately crave, then you're going to need to indicate - one way or another - what they are.
On Tumblr, the humiliation profile also had another purpose: whenever you submitted your list to me, I would publish it together with a little story or scenario of you being humiliated, degraded, used in just those ways that you indicated a craving for. This was delightfully sordid and steamy and I received many a grateful response from women saying how turned on (and how many times they'd cum) as a result of my words.
I'll be the first to admit that women telling me how turned on I've made them is ... a turn on. But, regretfully, I have to also tell you that I will no longer be offering that service because it ended up feeling like too much of a commitment on my part. (Good writing takes time!) That's not to say that I'll *never* do it, mind. If I fancy the look or sound of you, if you beg convincingly, if you flatter me, I may well knock out something for you to masturbate yourself silly. Don't even think about trying to convince me to write something for you unless you fill out the bonus section at the end.
You can use the list as you like. If you wish to simply like or re-blog it, great. If you wish to re-blog it, with your preferences filled in so that everyone else can see what makes your cunt wet, then excellent. If you wish to send it to me privately because you don't wish to publicise what a dirty little slut you are, but do want *someone* to know, then I'd be delighted to receive it. (You can assume that I will keep it private between us, unless you'd like me to publish it - anonymously, if you prefer.)
When filling in the answers, you can either just list the numbers, or, if you wish to make yourself blush more, write out each item in full. It is particularly helpful if you indicate which items make you especially wet and squirmy by appending one or more exclamation marks (!).
So now, enough with the explanations, onto the humiliation profile in all its glory!
NB: In the following I use the term "Owner" as a generic term to refer to any of: Dom, Domme, Master, Mistress or Top.
Version @Super-T-2.0.0
Just copy this info into your answer, so if/when questions get updated, we know what version of the Kit you were working with.
I Core information
1. Age: Can be approximate, if you like
2. Name: Not your real name, just something I can call you by, rather than "Anon". Then if our correspondence carries on subsequently, you can identify yourself.
3. Het, Bi or Lez? Yeah, I'm being deliberately un-PC here, but I *love* you lezbos, as it happens.
4. Who you've fantasised about humiliating you? Pick one or more options from the list below:
- Your Owner
- Someone with power over you (police, soldier, doctor, teacher, boss, relation, friend, bully)
- Someone you owe money or favour
- Someone who you need something from
- Any man or woman who your Owner lends you to
- Your blackmailer
- Your rapist
- Your abductor
- Anyone higher than you in the slave hierarchy
5. At what age did you have your first humiliation experience or realise that humiliation made you wet? Just need a number here
II List of Humiliations
Indicate what numbers in this list turn you on. Add exclamation marks (!) if it makes your face glow red and your cunt drip uncontrollably.
1. Being Controlled / Owned
- Being ordered around
- Being made to perform tasks
- Being denied orgasm
- Not being permitted to wear panties
- Not being permitted to wear a bra
- Being told what clothes to wear every day
- Having to be naked in the house
- Being told what you are allowed to eat
- Being told when and where you can sleep
- Having to eat off the floor
- Having to crawl on all fours
- Having to ask before you can go pee
- Having to pee outside
- Having to wear a collar to show that you're owned
- Being tattooed to show you're owned
- Having to answer any questions from your owner fully and honestly
2. Being put on display
- Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at home
- Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes in public
- Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at work
- Having to bare your tits, ass or cunt in a public place
- Being made to dress in a costume for him (schoolgirl, maid, etc)
- Being stripped naked in front of people your Owner invites round
- Being made to masturbate in front of people your Owner invites round
- Having pictures of you posted onto the web
- Being put on display as a whore in a shop window
3. Being treated as a sex object
- Being casually groped by your Owner whenever s/he wants
- Being groped in public by your Owner
- Being groped in public by a complete stranger
- Being treated as nothing but a set of holes
- Being treated as nothing more than a pair of big tits
- Being fucked as hard and as roughly as possible
- Having to take it up your ass
- Having to take it down your throat
- Being slapped across your face with his hard cock
- Being used as a cumbucket or cumrag
- Being gang-banged
- Being whored out
- Being used as a party favour
- Being used in a glory hole or adult theatre
- Being raped
4. Being verbally degraded
- Being talked to in a condescending manner
- Being talked to in a rude and arrogant fashion
- Being called dirty
- Being called a slut
- Being called a whore
- Being called worthless
- Being called stupid
- Being called a cunt
- Being called a bitch
- Being called a pig
- Being called a cow
- Being talked about to others
- Being talked about to others as if you're not there
- Having any of the above names written on your body
- Making you agree with and repeat back the names you are being called
5. Being physically hurt
- Having your hair pulled
- Having your face slapped
- Having your tits slapped
- Having your cunt slapped
- Having your nipples pinched or clamped
- Being bent over and having your ass spanked
6. Being disciplined
- Being castigated for doing something incorrectly
- Being scolded like a naughty girl
- Having to write lines
- Having to stand in the corner
- Being made to apologise for your behaviour
- Having to bare your bottom, bend over and wait for your punishment
- Having to count out each spank or stroke as it lands on your bottom
- Having to stand in the corner with your red punished ass on display
7. Being treated as unimportant
- Having your views mocked, belittled or ignored
- Having your feelings mocked, belittled or ignored
- Having your time deliberately wasted
- Being ignored altogether
- Treating your work or career as trivial or unimportant
- Him reminding you of your feminist beliefs as he orders you around like a maid
- Having your needs ignored in favour of your Owner's
- Being told your only purpose in life is to serve your Owner
8. Having your orgasm controlled
- Having to ask permission before you can cum
- Being restricted to humping household objects as your only means of cumming.
- Being made to edge throughtout the day to keep your cunt wet and ready
- Having to ask permission to touch your cunt
- Being locked in a chastity belt
- Being denied orgasm for days or weeks or months at a time (specify length)
- Only getting cock in your mouth or ass
9. Being shamed about your body
- Being told you're too fat
- Being told your tits are too small
- Being told you're ugly
- Being inspected and having your flaws pointed out to you
- Being compared to other women and told how you fail to measure up
10. Physical Constraints as a means of humiliation
- Having your hands cuffed behind your back
- Being kept in chains
- Being gagged to stop you talking
- Being gagged with an O-ring so your mouth and throat can be fucked
- Being tied up naked with your legs spread so you can be used at will
- Being kept locked up in a cage when you're not in use
11. Making you do demeaning and disgusting things
- Being spat on
- Making you piss yourself
- Being pissed on or in
- Having to swallow your Owner's piss
- Having piss in or over your food
- Having cum in or over your food
- Having you go out in public with cum over your face
- Having you spend the day with cum in your bra and panties
- Being gagged with your used panties
- Being fucked with a paper bag over your head
- Being fucked with your used panties over your head
- Being fucked with your head in the toilet
- Making you lick the toilet seat clean
- Making you hump the toilet
- Having your Owner sit on your face
- Having a toilet brush shoved up your cunt or asshole to clean it
- Making you lick his/her shoes clean
- Making you lovingly lick and kiss your Owners feet and toes
- Being hosed down like an animal
- Being made to lie in mud
- Being made to spend the night in the barn
12. Controlling your other relationships
- Having your private life discussed with family, friends or work colleagues
- Having intimate pictures of you shown to family, friends or work colleagues
- Making you have sex with your friends or work colleagues
- Making you help arrange sex for your Owner with family, friends or work colleagues
- Giving him/her access to all your computer accounts - email, facebook, blogs
13. Raceplay
- Having your race treated as inferior
- Being made to fuck other races who you wouldn't normally
- Being called racially insulting names
14. Gender play as humiliation
- Making you have sex with a woman if you're straight
- Making you have sex with a man if you're a lesbian
- Treating all women as inferior to men
15. Your position in your relationship
- Letting your Owner have sex with other women
- Having to watch or listen to him/her have sex with another
- Being denied sex while your Owner has as much sex as they want
- Being told by your Owner how much more s/he enjoys sex with the other woman
- Having to move into the spare room because his lover is now in your room
- Having to clean his lover's home as well as yours
- Having to buy her clothes, gifts and jewellery
- Having to clean her cunt and his cock with your mouth after they've made love
- Being humiliated by your Owner's lover for being inferior to her
- Not even having a Owner: you're just the live-in maid for another couple
16. Generic Humiliation
- Being laughed at
- Being told by your owner what s/he intends doing to you next
- Being told that making you feel mortified makes his cock hard
- Having to beg him for something you need or want
- Having to beg him _not_ to make you do something you don't want to do
- Being humiliated to tears
- Being encouraged to cry because it turns your Owner on
- Having to thank you the person after they've hurt or used you
- Having to say sorry to your Owner even when it's not your fault
- Being taunted because your cunt gets wet when you are humiliated
It's pretty fucking hot just reading through that list, don't you think? Here's a sample fictitious answer:
@S-T-2.0.0
I 1. 25 2. Frederica 3. Bi 4. (1,2,3,6!,9) 5. 19
II 1:1-5,11 2:all 3:1-10,15! 4:1-5,8!,10,13-15 5:1!,6! 6:all!! 8:1-4,6(week),7! 9:2 10:all! 11:1-3,7!,8!!,9,14:1-4,7,8,14!,15 15:1,2,9! 16:1,2!!,3,8,9,10
See? Short and not difficult at all, is it, ladies?
III Additional Info (Optional for Bonus Points)
Since I published this and got many, many replies to it, I often felt the need to ask even more questions to get a better idea of how to humiliate you. (Or, let's be honest, because it made my cock hard.) You can pre-empt those questions and get bonus points by answering them as well.
- What do you look like? (You're expected to tell me what size your tits are, at a minimum.)
- What race / ethnicity / nationality are you?
- Are you shy or outgoing?
- Are you religious? (if so, what faith?)
- Are you a virgin?
- If the answer to 5 is no, then how many men or women have you had sex with and which of your holes have they fucked?